Tumbling down the rabbit hole!

Published June 18, 2012 by Laura Crean Author

    For those of you who know me, you will probably be aware that I haven’t been myself this past year, if not quite a bit longer – I have been a bit poorly.  In fact I have been suffering with chronic anxiety and depression.  And I’m not ashamed to say that I have pretty much lost the plot this last year.  I have found it extremely difficult to cope, to just get up and get on with it.  But I have!  I’ve had to – I’m a single parent.

Unfortunately when you are the one who is responsible for everyone else in the house, you don’t have much choice.  But do you know what?  There comes a point in this sort of experience that you just stop being able to just get up and get on with it!  Every little task seems like a mountain to climb and when you have been so strong for so long and been holding on to the rope that tightly, suddenly when the tension breaks, the rope breaks too and that little thread you were clinging to falls away and you find yourself tumbling through a void of complete and utter despair, like Alice falling down the rabbit hole – desperately trying to grab onto anything that comes within your grasp to save yourself.  And just like Alice’s adventures, for me it has been a quest, to get back on that path and find my way back out of that rabbit hole.  I’m not out of it yet but I thought I would like to share this blog with you all to show that I am not ashamed any more of not being in complete control, nobody can be in control all the time! And as for that white rabbit constantly running in a state because he’s late – well that is how I have felt, like I’m running and running and running to catch up with him because that is what I am supposed to do – to be in control, to be on time, to know where I’m going, but sometimes you’ve just got to let him go and slow right down to your own pace.

And I have had help from family and friends that has been invaluable to me, and I would like to acknowledge all those people that have helped me ride the wave and been there with me when I have fallen apart – you know who you are, especially my Mum – having a shoulder to cry on or a hand to pull you up when you are in a situation like this is so, so important!  I can’t tell you how important it is to have someone there to lean on when you are so weak that you can’t stand on your own 2 feet and walk the path alone!

The other thing that has kept me focussed is my writing – for my sanity and so I can continue to be there for my darling daughters, I have thrown myself into my children’s books and poetry.  It is also something I can share with them, to keep me connected to why I get up every day – because I love my children, more than my own life’s worth and THEY are worth it, they are worth the pain of daily struggles, because they are little miracles who deserve a Mum who CAN cope with the problems life throws into the mix.  So I put on my belt of strength and take up my sword of truth and with a cloak of determination I continue to get up each day and battle the beasts of the forest and the dark shadowy demons sitting on my shoulder and I WILL get out of that darn rabbit hole one day and when I do I shall plug up the hole and send that rabbit on his way without a second glance!


4 comments on “Tumbling down the rabbit hole!

  • Laura, you have suffered for being so strong and brave, we all love you, always will and it is also somewhere I have been when life has dealt one too many hard knocks. Time and Patience, understanding Family and Friends are the best help there is, and then of course there is you, nothing has ever been achieved properly without also taking the time to understand why, just know you have a heart of gold, are the kindest, most caring person, without that you wouldnt be the awesome Laura that I know. Top girl. 🙂


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